Why I Stay in Bed Just a Little Longer Each Day
Some days, I wake up and never want to leave the comfort of my bed. I don’t want to get up and struggle through the day. I don’t want to remember that I have eosinophilic granulomatosis with polyangiitis (EGPA), and even simple tasks take more energy than I have. I dream about staying under my covers all day long.
Under my covers is warm. I don’t have to move around, so my muscle and joint pain, a common symptom of EGPA, is not an issue. Every morning, I slowly and gently move all my muscles to lessen the morning joint tenderness and muscle pain. If I am under my covers, I can lie still to avoid the pain until I am ready to do my morning stretching routine.
Under my covers is quiet and dark. Morning light and noise can aggravate the migraine headaches I am prone to because of the intravenous immunoglobulin infusion therapy I receive every three weeks because I have hypogammaglobulinemia, a side effect from some of the immune-suppressing medications I take for EGPA. If I can stay in the quiet and darkness, my migraine remains at a lower pain level.
Under my covers, there is no pressure to pretend I am healthy. I don’t have to prove to others that I can cope with everything the day throws at me. I don’t have to be social, which exhausts me, and I don’t have to push myself past my limits to please others. I get the rest that my body screams for every day.
Under my covers, I am successful. In daily life, I often compare myself to others, which can leave me feeling like a failure. I tend to push myself too hard to accomplish as much as possible, on both a professional and a personal level. I never want to disappoint anyone, so I take on more than my exhausted body and mind can handle. I find myself continually trying to catch up or apologize for an unfinished project. The brain fog that comes with my illness is not an issue if I stay under my covers.
While under my covers, I can avoid medical appointments. I don’t have to tell anyone how I feel this week and answer questions about whether I think my disease is becoming more active. I don’t have to go for blood tests to tell if my disease has become more active. I don’t have to change or begin new medications. While under my covers, I can even pretend for a short while that I don’t have EGPA.
Under my covers, I can avoid responsibility. I can hide in my quiet, pain-free darkness and not think about even the basic things I need to accomplish each day. I don’t stress being a wife, mother, or friend as I hide under my covers. I am only responsible for one person: me.
Some days, I’ll stay under my covers for an hour or more. I’ll remain there to be at peace and regain the much-needed energy I need to proceed with my day. Slowly waking up and getting my body moving helps me have a more successful day. As I exit my bed, I’m grateful for the warmth and safety of my covers, and I know they’ll be there to keep me cozy for another morning.
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